The Standard Toolkit Library
The Standard Toolkit Library
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As Seen In ARCHITECTURAL DIGEST & FORBES
- 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee — Designer-tested in 100+ family homes. Kid-friendly answers tonight — or your money back.
“You're getting access to experience what only her clients had before; her whole business in a workbook.” — Bri, The Furnishing Standard Toolkit
Both Standard Toolkits. One Library. The whole practice on your shelf.
Less to decide. More family time.
Let me guess.
The renovation is coming, or it's already started — and right behind it is an entire furnishing project eating up evenings you don't have to spare. Two purchases, two sets of decisions, two things to learn, when what you actually want is one plan.
You don't need more ideas. You need kid-friendly decisions, narrowed down, for the hours you actually have. Nobody tells you renovation and furnishing are one project, not two — until you've already bought them separately.
Now picture the whole thing, designed.
Decisions made on paper, before demo day. Materials chosen once, then furnished once, beautifully, when the dust settles. No regret tile, no second-guessing the sofa. Same project, same budget, same house — one continuous plan, start to finish. Here's how:
The Family-Proof Method, start to finish, built for family homes.
The Standard Toolkit Library is built on the Family-Proof Method: both Standard Toolkits, in order — The Renovation Standard Toolkit for the build, then The Furnishing Standard Toolkit for everything that goes in it afterward. Every fixture, every purchase, every decision, put through the Family-Proof Method's four questions. Built for family life, not around it.
Includes both interactive project managers.
Every renovation selection and every furnishing purchase in one place, with your whole-house budget updating live across both. Hand your contractor their exact schedule — model numbers, quantities, delivery dates, zero questions. They're the project managers I use for client projects, from start to finish. Now they're yours.
1,600+ formulas · 1,350+ fillable fields · 475+ items across 17 rooms · checklists for every phase and every room.
Fill in the blanks, check the boxes, enter one budget number — the project managers do the math from there.
Start wherever you are: demo day or the last throw pillow.
Every decision a designer would walk you through — no designer required.
Working with a designer or contractor? You'll be their favorite client: every decision is already made, so the project moves faster and smoother.
Fillable PDF workbooks + interactive project manager spreadsheets (Google Sheets or Excel), on any device. Lifetime access, including every update. Questions? Send me a note.
- 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee — Designer-tested in 100+ family homes. Kid-friendly answers tonight — or your money back.
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“This is the Big Little Feelings of Interior Design”
“A real interior design manual built for parents — not an organizing guide, not a cleaning method.”
— Gabrielle, verified buyer
OUR TRANSPARENCY STANDARD
The Family-Proof Method
Every recommendation in every toolkit answers four questions: Is it safe for kids? Is it washable? How many years will it last? What does it cost per year? Most design advice skips straight to "buy this." Your design friend doesn't.
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ARCHITECTURAL DIGEST · HOMES & GARDENS · FORBES · REAL SIMPLE · BETTER HOMES & GARDENS · BUSINESS OF HOME
Nice things, kids included.
The toolkits: two step-by-step fillable workbooks and two interactive project manager spreadsheets, made to work as pairs. The workbooks make the decisions; the project managers keep track of every one.
You do it all. Your house should be an extra set of hands. Both Standard Toolkits turn the full Family-Proof Method into a step-by-step plan any family can follow — no guessing, no judgment.
Start to finish, designed.
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Scope
The budget and timeline decided on paper, before demo day.
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Hire
How to find, interview, and hire the right contractor.
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Select
Chosen once, for the build and the furnishing both.
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Furnish
Every room, from questionnaire to the layouts that end the scramble.
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Manage
Two project managers, every dollar in one place.
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Live
We can't make it fun. But we can help you plan around it.
From your Design Friend
Hi — it's me.
I'm Jackie — an Architectural Digest–featured interior designer with a BFA in Interior Architecture & Design from the Academy of Art University in San Francisco, a parent, and your design friend. 15+ years of projects, 100+ family homes, zero judgment. I kept hearing the same thing: "I have kids — I can't have a nice home." As if family design has to mean cheap and disposable. It doesn't. Somebody should design homes for actual families. So I did.
The part nobody photographs
Family homes see it all — mine too. Beyond the 100+ family homes I've designed, I renovated my own, while working full time with a one-year-old at home. Portfolio photos show a finished room on its best day. They don't show the dust, the delays, or the decisions made at 10 pm. I get it, because I've lived it. The Family-Proof Method doesn't ask for perfect. It gets you through both, so life gets to happen on the other side.
THE PROMISE
30-Day Money-Back Guarantee
Designer-tested in 100+ family homes. Kid-friendly answers tonight — or your money back.
“Our home finally feels design-worthy and it functions for our actual kid life.”
— Gabrielle, The Furnishing Standard Toolkit
STILL WONDERING SOMETHING?
Questions, answered
Is this for one room or a whole house?
Either. Start wherever you are — one room at a time or the whole house, at your own pace. The Family-Proof Method scales to your project.
I'm not "design-y." Will I get it?
It's step-by-step. If you can follow a recipe, you can follow this.
Digital or physical?
Digital — both fillable workbooks plus both interactive project managers, on your phone, tablet, computer, or printed. Lifetime access.
I'm hiring a designer — is this still useful?
Very. You'll show up knowing your style, your budget, and your priorities — the prep that makes any design project, and any designer, better.
Why not a course?
A course teaches you, then leaves you to do it alone. This does the work with you: your home, your budget, your rooms, filled in as you go, with the project managers keeping it all in one place. No videos to sit through, no modules to finish first. Start at whatever part your project is in.
Why these prices?
The complete Family-Proof Method, calibrated from 15+ years of real client projects — not a template, the actual toolkit. Designer-tested in 100+ family homes. Kid-friendly answers tonight — or your money back.
You're getting access to experience what only her clients had before; her whole business in a workbook. This workbook removes the barrier to entry for me, someone who doesn't know design lingo or come from that world. The price ranges gave me shopping context I've never had. I also really enjoyed the seasonal refresh lists and cleaning guides. Life gets so busy, with priorities shifting constantly, I was grateful to have an expert breakdown home function and design. This guide simplified for me what I needed to actually make positive changes in my home, one room at a time.
You got it. The whole design process in a workbook, no lingo required. That's exactly what I'm building for you.
As ever,
Jackie
We just bought our first home and wanted it to actually feel designed — not just furnished. We had a small budget for some new pieces but definitely not a budget for a hired designer. We wanted to do it right and we needed help.
This is exactly that. A real interior design manual built for parents — not an organizing guide, not a cleaning method. Actual design, but for real family life.
It held my hand through all the big decisions — finding sofas and rugs that are genuinely nice but won’t get destroyed in a week. The kind of stuff you want to invest in once and not regret. Found it on Pinterest at 11pm and wish I’d had it from day one.
The budget tool is worth the price alone. Typed in one number and it told me what to spend in every single room. Showed my husband and for the first time we were looking at the same plan. No more midnight tabs spiral.
The bonus is it also helped us build routines to actually maintain the design we created. Our kids seem calmer in their bedrooms at night. The living room handles everything from after school to full weekends without looking like a tornado hit it. And I can actually have people over now — I’m proud of our space instead of embarrassed by it.
Our home finally feels design-worthy and it functions for our actual kid life. Already sent it to my sister and two moms from school. Go get it!
The midnight tabs spiral ending — that's the whole thing right there. Thank you for showing what this actually changes.
As ever,
Jackie
This is the only resource I've found that actually balances a beautiful aesthetic with the reality of family life, and it completely cured my decision fatigue by doing all the research for us. It honestly felt like getting high-end designer advice without the massive price tag, endless meetings, or losing our own personal style. I've always wanted to learn about interior design, and this actually taught me so much that it made our project super fun instead of totally daunting. Jackie truly understands the chaos of being both a renovator and a parent. Plus, the automated spreadsheet is amazing—you just plug in your total budget and it instantly maps out your spending for every single room, while also letting you hand a clear, finalized material plan straight to your builder. It finally got my spouse and me on the same page and proved you don’t have to sacrifice style just because you have a family.